I went to
visit the Eldest Oyster once again to see how he’s getting along. I know that
he is trying to rejuvenate the now depleted oyster population, so I asked him
how it is coming along?
The eldest Oyster looked at me,
But never
a word he said:
The eldest Oyster winked his eye,
And
shook his heavy head —
Meaning to say he did not choose
To
have the shidduch redt.
This was not
very encouraging, but I immediately understood why.
Last April, I
wrote a post about the controversy over supplying pictures for shidduch
purposes. I opened that post with some cynical humor as follows:
Corona has
set the world of shidduchim upside down. Restrictions and lockdowns have added
new challenges to an already challenging sugya. The way things are going, every
shidduch resume will begin with the following information:
Name: Mimi Klein
DOB: 01/15/2000
Height: 5’ 4”
Green Status: Pro-Vax/ Anti-Vax
Hashem
yerachem!
Now, one can
say that I was being somewhat prophetic. The truth is that there was no need
for prophecy. It was merely רואה את הנולד. I projected
that this is bound to happen and it seems to me that I was right.
The first
thing that came my way was a link somebody sent me to one of those conservative
watchdog sites called The Covid World. The post was on January 4. I don’t want
to link to the exact post because of the illustrative photos of improperly
dressed young women, but here is the headline:
Vaccinated
Women Are Now Lying About Their Vax Status As More Men See Them As Infertility
Risk
This is followed
by a blurb which states:
Everyone was told that those who did not get the jab would regret it, but now it seems that the opposite is true. In a startling reversal, women who have had the COVID vaccine are being shunned in the dating scene by potential partners due to issues with possible birth defects and infertility.
And the lead
line of the post reads:
Women in New York have started lying about their vaccination status because of widespread perception among men that they are infertile or will bear children with birth defects.
I understood
this to be a growing phenomenon in the “open” non-Jewish world, but it didn’t
really occur to me to what extent this is happening in our circles. But the
following day when I saw one of my chavrusas and mentioned to him what’s going
on in the non-Jewish dating scene in the US he told me, “It’s happening here,
too.”
Boruch
Hashem, just over the past six months, I merited to marry off the only two of
my marriageable children who are female. The males are still roosting around (plus
some younger females). When these two young ladies were being redt, nobody
asked us if they are vaccinated (they are not). Hence, I had no reason to be
conscious of this phenomenon despite my “projection” from last April. (Oops - I just remembered that I did ask both boys when I met them personally. One is and one isn't. But I didn't ask the shadchan and nobody asked me about the girls)
Still, it doesn’t
come as any surprise.
As soon as
this new experimental vaccine was unfurled, the detractors and doomsayers were
warning about potential fertility, pregnancy and other gynecological issues.
The supporters brushed them off. “Trust the science!”.
My position
was, “Let’s wait and see.” (I.e., don't judge science from the "scientists".)
Since that
time there have been many disturbing reports. Not only about women’s issues but
all types of adverse effects and medical issues. Though a few may have been
“debunked”, there are just too many of them and too much firsthand testimonies
from “casualties” (and next of kin) to dismiss them.
We hear about
86 stillbirths over 12 months in Waterloo, Ontario. The reporters insist that
every single mother was vaccinated. But they reassured us that this is only
happening in places that actually keep and store the data. Not anywhere where
they don’t.
The Ontario
Minister of Health denied this statistic but had no other verified statistics
to offer. The “Fact Checkers” (the usual suspects) also denied these allegations
and tried to offer other statistics but it’s just “he says-she says”. Despite
all this reassurance, an accompanying VAERS report seemed to show 2,893 3,306 fetal
deaths subsequent to taking the Covid-19 “vaccination” as of Dec. 10, 2021 January 14, 2022.
I don’t know
who to believe but I know who not to trust. (1) I cannot trust anybody with an
agenda. (2) I cannot trust anybody with substantial financial stakes. (3) I
cannot trust anybody who is immune from liability or prosecution. And (4) I
cannot trust a product that hasn’t been tested (and passed those tests).
It’s not just
me. These principles of who can and cannot be trusted can be found in Shulchan
Aruch Yoreh Deah 155 and Choshen Mishpat 37. The Halachos are based on just plain
common sense. As important as daas Torah is, it is very hard to rely on Rabbanim
who are oblivious to what is going on and who tell us to overlook what is said
in Shulchan Aruch. The question of whether a medication is safe or effective is
a matter of fact – either it is or it isn’t – and not a matter of Halacha. One
cannot paskin that a medical product or procedure is safe.
Well, who can
we trust? I think we can trust people like Dr. Robert Malone who doesn’t have
an agenda, doesn’t have substantial financial stakes, is not immune from
prosecution or liability and knows what’s going on.
As part of a three-hourinterview that has taken the open-minded by storm, he reported an audience he
had in front of a panel of about 15 “hassidic” (I doubt they were all
Chassidic) poskim who sought his knowledge about women’s issues.
Dr. Malone
told us that there are two parts of the body which are especially vulnerable to
the invasive effects of the mRNA vaccines: the bone marrow and the ovaries. He
claims that the panel of poskim concluded that the vaccine should be avoided
for younger people.
You can see
the segment here:
Note - The embedded video will most likely
not be displayed in the email version of this post. To see it, see my post
online.
Of course,
many people may be in denial about how badly women have been affected, but let’s
just say that 15 noted poskim have better things to do than convene for a medical
lecture from a non-Jewish doctor unless something serious is going on.
On a more reassuring note, I went so far as to contact my local neighborhood family posek
and asked hm point blank if he has been seeing serious side effects from this
vaccine. I told him that since I have boys in shidduchim, I really need to know
the score. He told me that he has seen some staining issues but not much more.
Though this may be a bit reassuring, two things need to be taken into consideration: (1) Even staining issues can be enough to impair the shalom bayis of a couple. But more concerning is: (2) the possibility that if a woman is having a very hard time, there won’t be much use in consulting a posek. And this applies even more to unmarried women. So this may not be giving us an accurate picture.
Of course, we
do have a slew of upsetting testimonials and a close female relative of mine
volunteers for a gemach that provides the “forbidden” alternative medicine here
in Eretz Israel. She has a few extreme tales to tell about women losing a lot
on account of this vaccine.
This is one of the most upsetting stories that I have seen (although I couldn't get 100% verification that she was vaccinated, the odds are very likely.):
New mother collapses and dies after giving birth to a stillborn | News 7 (israelnationalnews.com)
All told, it
is not surprising to discover that vaccination status is starting to become a new
standard. And I have to admit, my Eli (23) was embarking on a new “parsha”
about two weeks ago. I advised him to check whether the girl is vaccinated and,
if so, if she has any irregularities. He told me that he only plans to do it if
it starts to get serious. Right now, he is not using it for screening.
Alright.
It doesn’t
end with this. All of the above is discussing an inquiry for medical concerns which,
as far as we know, only affects the female side of the market. I have been told
that in the US and Canada, where vax pressure is higher (especially Canada),
this question is being asked to Shadchanim for other additional concerns which
amount to:
- Just plain
political concerns - to determine the mentality and “political” leanings of the
prospective shidduch for compatibility reasons.
- Practical concerns - If this shidduch works, will there be problems with upholding the current COVID restrictions and making a proper wedding that everyone can attend?
I have heard
that the latter is a top issue if one of the sides is Canadian. Evidently,
unvaxxed people have a lot of trouble trying to cross the borders.
These last
two issues throw the whole system into complete turmoil because these last two
issues apply to the boys as much as they apply to the girls. What makes it even
more distressing is that if a boy is asking the question because of concerns
for women’s health concerns, undoubtably, the answer he wants to hear is “Not
vaxxed.”
And if a girl
is vaxxed, she can’t change that.
Conversely,
if the question is asked because of COVID restriction concerns, the answer that
the other side wants is an unequivocal “Yes - and up to date.” Of course, this
can be easily remedied although I find it quite disturbing that young people
play with this risky vaccine for reasons other than they think it is the best thing
to do for their health. Very sadly, this explanation is what I hear most
commonly from people I ask.
Finally, if
the question is being asked to feel out the mentality of the other side, there
is no telling what answer the inquisitor wants to hear!
When we put all
this together, we can suspect that perhaps the powers that are implementing
these draconian mandates throughout the world have this catastrophe in mind:
גזירתם (בנט\ביידין\טרודאו\פאוצ'י\גייטס) קשה
משל פייזר, שפייזר לא גזר אלא על הנקבות והם גוזרים על
הנקבות ועל הזכרים.
These are
times that try men's soul[mate]s.
עת צרה היא ליעקב - וממנה יושע!
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